The answer to this question is a definite YES, you certainly can. A lot of men don’t realize, but just because your ex girlfriend has someone new in her life, doesn’t mean that is the person who they’ll ultimately marry and want to spend the rest of her life with. Let’s think about it, how often does that happen? Especially if she has jumped straight from you to this new...

Getting back your girlfriend after a fight or breakup can be a daunting task. Before you go for it you probably need to ask yourself a few questions. Most important, do you want her back because you truly love her for who she is or because you would be ashamed to be seen by your friends without your ‘trophy’? Was your relationship a positive one, where common ideals and goals were...

Call your old friends up and ask what they are doing so you could hang out and do guy things. Start a hobby and get really good at it. Take down all her pictures and anything that reminds you of her. Move your furniture around, buy fresh new bedding and paint a wall a new colour to reclaim your space as your space Round up all the ex’s belongings in your home and put them somewhere in a bag/box....

Question: I am dating a really nice gentleman who has two wonderful children. He, the children, and I get along wonderfully. The problem is his ex-wife. They have been separated for three years. We have been dating for six months. Her behavior has really started to worry me. She has confronted me, called me names, and has not been clear on expressing what her problem is with me. She has broken...

Profanity. Egging. Xanax. Oh, the things men (and even some women) will resort to when love’s gone awry. In The Encyclopedia of Exes, some of today’s hippest male writers dig deep into their romantic pasts to present twenty-six inspired pieces of short fiction on heartbreak and failed relationships. Their stories, ranging from the passionate to the cynical to the downright hilarious,...